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March 29th, 2014

Reason , Season , Lifetime.

"People always come into your life for a reason , a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is , you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a reason , it is usually to meet a need you you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty , or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically , emotionally or even spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend to you , and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met , our desire fulfilled , their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is time to move on.

Some people come to your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share , grow or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it ! It is real !

But only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall , the season eventually ends.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons : those things you must build upon to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson ; love the person anyway ; and put what you have learnt to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that Love is blind but Friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you all for being a part of my life, whether for a reason , a season or a lifetime."

Brian A. "Drew" Chalker



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