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Reason , Season , Lifetime.

"People always come into your life for a reason , a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is , you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a reason , it is usually to meet a need you you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty , or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically , emotionally or even spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend to you , and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met , our desire fulfilled , their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is time to move on.

Some people come to your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share , grow or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it ! It is real !

But only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall , the season eventually ends.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons : those things you must build upon to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson ; love the person anyway ; and put what you have learnt to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that Love is blind but Friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you all for being a part of my life, whether for a reason , a season or a lifetime."

Brian A. "Drew" Chalker


Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude.” - Denis Waitley



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Have fun sweetheart!!! You're always in my thoughts!
I love you.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY afra_schatz

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Have a beautiful day my friend!!

Les enfants qui s'aiment

Les enfants qui s’aiment s’embrassent debout
Contre les portes de la nuit
Et les passants qui passent les désignent du doigt
Mais les enfants qui s’aiment
Ne sont là pour personne
Et c’est seulement leur ombre
Qui tremble dans la nuit
Excitant la rage des passants
Leur rage, leur mépris, leurs rires et leur envie
Les enfants qui s’aiment ne sont là pour personne
Ils sont ailleurs bien plus loin que la nuit
Bien plus haut que le jour
Dans l’éblouissante clarté de leur premier amour
(Jacques Prevert)

The children lovers embrace upright
Against night’s doors
And passers-by who pass by point their finger at them
But the children lovers
Are there for no one
And it’s only their shadow
Which quivers in the night
Stirring up the anger of the passers-by
Their anger, their contempt, their laughs and their desire
The children lovers are there for no one
They’re elsewhere much further than the night
Much higher than the day
In the dazzling light of their first love.

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Feb. 9th, 2014

"A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow."

– William Shakespearelovely-cute-backgrounds-desktop-friendship-papel
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My sweet friend, I wish you love, peace, joy and long long years to enjoy them! With all my heart.


"...for last year's words belong to last year's language and next year's words await another voice."

T.S. Eliot

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